What's worse than spam, more dangerous than cyber sex, and scarier than getting a computer virus? An Instant Message from the guy who got away ten years ago...grayscale: amber fleece? is that you?foreveramber: OMG. Am I dreaming?grayscale: it's me, toots. amazing how many people this classreunion.com thing unearthed.foreveramber: Sort of like worms.What happens when a randomly accessed memory changes from a harmless Google to rekindled love? Someone has to draw the line between adultery and e-dultery...to: wonderwomanfrom: tmarkHey gorgeous. I'm back in the halls of the old workplace.to: tmarkfrom: wonderwomanJust when I thought it was safe to go on line...to: wonderwomanfrom: tmarkI think of you every time I pass the video closet...remember?to: tmarkfrom: wonderwomanSorry, Tom, I've gone down the mommy track and not even you can derail me. (I hope.)Hit Reply is what happens when female friends turn to former lovers -- and each other -- to find fulfillment.foreveramber: I'm 28, in advertising, single, and you know what I need the most?wonderwoman: You need the strength of character to survive corporate politics, the confidence to believe in your inner beauty, and a trip to the Borghese counter.foreveramber: Nah. I need a guy who looks like Brad Pitt.